It’s amazing that so many people go through the same things, but with different examples. When I was with him I had horrible, horrible allergies. Ever since I left him I am allergy free. The energy he took. The stress he caused. The cruel words and actions. I never felt good enough. His validation was everything. Leaving that relationship should’ve been the easiest decision, but with kids and now co-parenting with two different households…it’s hard. I’m not with him, but because we have two kids I am still with him. Oh yeah you better believe I’m working on that article.